Writer Facts

By NAMB

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Copyright 2025 by NAMB all rights reserved

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Guide for Writers

This is not a story. It is an essay to share ideas with my fellow writers.

In fantasy material such as is published here, there is an expectation that the readers suspend disbelief to enjoy the stories. Hopefully, these stories do NOT represent real-world events. However, even though this is fantasy, there are still some limits on how much disbelief we can expect the reader to suspend.

Some things are most definitely out of limits. Having 10-year-old boys ejaculating from 8 inch penises 20 times in a day is an example of one of these extremes.

But how far can you push the limits before the reader’s mind says, “Yeah, right?”

I decided to do some research.

1. Penis Size

Penis size is probably one of the most abused metrics in stories. Penis sizes vary greatly from boy to boy. There are outliers (exceptionally small or large penises) but do try to stay with reasonable size. The myths associated with different races having different penis sizes are just that: myths.

The following “chart” is from Parent’s Magazine. Consider these when writing stories:

Age - Penis Length

10 to 11 - 1.6 to 3.1 inches
12 - 2.0 to 4.0 inches
13 - 2.0 to 4.7 inches
14 - 2.4 to 5.5 inches
15 - 3.1 to 5.9 inches
16 - 3.9 to 5.9 inches
17 - 3.9 to 6.3 inches
18 - 4.3 to 6.7 inches

2. Time to Ejaculation

From ChatGPT

The time to ejaculation during male masturbation—often referred to in clinical or research contexts as ejaculatory latency time (ELT) or intravaginal ejaculation latency time (IELT) (for partnered sex)—varies significantly across individuals and can be influenced by a range of psychological, physiological, and situational factors.

Research Findings on Time to Ejaculation During Masturbation:

While IELT is more commonly studied in medical literature, a few studies have measured time to ejaculation during masturbation. Here's a summary of available data:

Average Time to Ejaculation (Masturbation)

• General Range: 2 to 7 minutes for most men.

• Mean Time: Approximately 5–6 minutes is often cited in surveys or small-scale studies.

• Variability: Some men ejaculate in under a minute, while others take more than 10 minutes.

• These figures are for the first ejaculation of the day. Each subsequent ejaculation takes an increasingly longer time to achieve.

• Factors Influencing Ejaculatory Latency

Age: Younger men may ejaculate faster; older men may take longer due to changes in arousal and sensitivity.
Frequency of Masturbation: More frequent masturbation may lead to quicker ejaculation due to heightened arousal or conditioning.
Mental State: Anxiety, distraction, or psychological stress can speed up or delay ejaculation.
Medical Conditions: Conditions like premature ejaculation (PE) or delayed ejaculation (DE) influence latency.
Use of Pornography: Stimulus intensity can affect speed.
Drugs or alcohol can affect latency.
Previous ejaculations within the previous period.

• Clinical Classifications (for PE or DE)

Premature Ejaculation (PE): Often defined as ejaculating within 1 minute of starting stimulation.
Delayed Ejaculation (DE): Defined as persistent difficulty reaching orgasm despite adequate stimulation—sometimes exceeding 20–30 minutes.

3. Refractory Period

The refractory period in males refers to the time after orgasm and ejaculation during which it is physiologically impossible or difficult to achieve another erection or orgasm. This period is a normal part of male sexual response and is influenced by age, health, hormone levels, and psychological factors.

Medical and Scientific Data on Male Refractory Period. Typical Duration

• Young men (teens to 20s): As short as a few minutes to 15 minutes
• Prepubescent boys may require even less time to recover.
• Middle-aged men (30s to 50s): Often 30 minutes to an hour
• Older men (60s and up): Can range from several hours to days
• Some men report no refractory period, especially after masturbation, while others may have a very long one depending on individual and situational factors.
• Refractory Period increases with subsequent ejaculations.
• The Refractory Period for a ruined ejaculation cannot be calculated since the penis is left in a state of arousal.

4. Ejaculate Volume

The volume of ejaculate refers to the amount of semen released during ejaculation. This can vary widely between individuals and even from one ejaculation to another, depending on several factors such as age, frequency of ejaculation, hydration, and overall health.

Average Ejaculate Volume

Factors Affecting Semen Volume

5. Number of Contractions per Ejaculation.
   
   I have been unable to find reliable numbers on this. This figure is difficult to calculate. The first couple of contractions cannot be ignored. The strength of the contractions diminishes with each one. There comes a point where they are so weak, it’s not worth pumping anymore.
   
   This figure probably also depends on the amount of abstinence before the ejaculation.
   

6. Ejaculation Distance
   
   This figure is also difficult to measure. It depends on the strength of the contraction, how high the penis is above the floor and the angle that the penis held at the moment of ejaculation. If each of these could be measured accurately, then it becomes a simple physics problem.
   
   

7. Other Factors
   
   Age / Teasing / Edging / Ruined Ejaculation / Presence of Fetish Objects / Psychological State all modify these figures.
   
   

8. “Recommended” Values
   
   These are a set of personal rules that I use when writing stories. I like to make my stories as plausible as I can. Some of these are based on personal data. I will not say which
   
   How young can a boy be before he can ejaculate?
   
   Puberty for boys normally begins at age 12 plus or minus. However, it is not likely that a boy younger than 10 can ejaculate. Boys at any age can get an erection and experience an orgasm although “dry cums” are very weak when compared to full ejaculation.
   
   Penis Size. I normally stay within the norms.
   
   Time to Ejaculate – it should be increasingly difficult to cum the more times your boy does it. This chart is based on a simple linear increase although I suspect that in reality it may be exponential.
   
   

Refractory Period is related to the number of times a boy can cum in one day. I use the following as a guide. This chart is exponential.

This suggests that the maximum number of ejaculations a boy can experience in a day is 6. Not only does the boy have to wait for the refractory period to elapse, he also has to masturbate to his next ejaculation. As the chart above suggests, this takes an increasing amount of time to accomplish. If these figures are accurate, there literally isn’t enough time in a day to do more.

Ejaculate volume. I normally do not specify this value. However, I like to endow my boys with the ability to deliver a load “bigger than some of the men we girls saw on a porn site.”

Number of Contractions per ejaculation. I normally do not specify this value either. I do imply that it’s in the range of about a dozen.

Ejaculation Distance. If the boy is standing, I sometimes specify 6 feet. If the girl and boy are facing each other and she is jerking him off, he will cum on her skirt or shorts. Kneeling it’s whatever distance it takes to reach the feet of the girls watching him. Laying on his back, enough to hit him in the face.

In addition to these metrics, there are things I avoid. These are entirely personal and not a condemnation of other authors (except for the first point).

• Rape in any form
• Intercourse
• Masturbation between adults and minors. Adults at best look the other way. The acts of the characters may not be exactly consensual (FORCED nudity), but the power difference between adult and child is just too much for me to accept.
• Pain / sadism – it’s just not my style. My boys are more like trained pets than slaves.
• Anything to do with Nazis or racism – these issues are too serious to trivialize in a story.

Here are some of the things I like. Again, the list is totally personal:

• Girls younger than the boys they dominate
• Girls coming into power by their own means and not having it handed to them by law or custom or an adult giving them the power.
• Multiple girls to multiple boys
• Mentoring – more experienced girls bringing other girls into the fold.

These items promote the idea that girls are in charge solely based on their femininity. They do not get their power from some other authority.

Then again, even I break my own rules from time to time.

So, there it is fellow authors. You can take these ideas or leave them. Some of them are based on data and actual measurements. Some are conjectures. Use whatever you think your readers will accept.


I invite any other writer or would be writer to contact me. I like “talking shop.”